4. Rambling on without making definite points
It is okay to inform a girl what you did during the day or at work, but you shouldn’t ramble on about what you saw at the taxi rank, the police siren that blew past, the office AC that the repairmen failed to fix, and how you must send some allowance to your mother back in the village. You must be discreet when you meet a girl – rambling on and on about boring things via texting is simply not good and will just make you come across as boring too.