10 Signs You’ve Picked The Wrong One

8. You’re too clingy

That’s not meant to indicate that someone is too physically clingy and showers their partner with to many hugs, kisses and cuddles, although, like anything else, that can be overdone, too. What we’re more interested in this time is clinging too tightly to the relationship itself.

Do you find yourself feeling fearful that the relationship could end? Do you go out of your way to do things for your partner with the goal of making them love you more and not so much because you love them? It’s possible that you could be more in love with the relationship than you are with the person.

It might be seem like a natural reaction for someone to bend over backwards to please their partner if he or she is often threatening to end the relationship. In reality, it may be a sign for the person being threatened to wake up to reality and have the courage to end the relationship instead. Nobody should be a prisoner to love or what may feel like love and is actually more about control.