7. Uncertain future
For people who are truly “meant to be,” a lot of time is probably spent planning for the future. A couple may want to move in together, get married or have children. Those thoughts should be accompanied by joyful anticipation and excitement. On the other hand, if those are the types of thoughts that provoke fear, uncertainty and doubt, there’s a good chance you are making plans with the wrong person.
When you think about your future, your partner should be prominently included, but if daydreams about your future life exclude that person, that’s a not-so-subtle signal that part of you knows your relationship is seriously flawed and you just haven’t been able to admit it to yourself.